Australia’s most trusted dating site for genuine long‑term relationships.

At Stayer Not Player, we believe love should last a lifetime. No games — just real people looking for something real.

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Why Australians choose us

Real intent

Designed for commitment, not swipes.

Safety & privacy

Bank‑level encryption and clear rules.

Local support

We operate proudly in Australia.

Membership for replies

Sending a first message is free. Replying requires a membership.

$50 — 6 months

$100 — 12 months

Success stories

“We met on Stayer Not Player and got engaged after 14 months.” — A & J
“Real people, real intentions. Best dating decision I made.” — K
“It felt safe and calm — not like other apps.” — R